Have you ever notice your thinking pattern. Perhaps Most of us have same thinking pattern. We carry beliefs about what is right and what is wrong and we keep holding these beliefs for years.
These beliefs are deeply rooted in ourself. No one can easily change them. That’s why when someone would disagree with our believes suddenly we start fighting or arguing until they’ll agree with us.
In that case peoples starts avoiding us. Because no one want to be wrong. After that only conflict and confrontation will begin because the need to be right always makes someone else wrong. Being right implies that someone else must be wrong.
Are you happy with this? I’m sure you are not because you know the importance of your relationships and also know the importance of other’s happiness and yourself happiness too.
So we are gonna find another way so that we can maintain our relationships.
First of all we need to understand that everyone has there own point of view and we need to respect them as we respect our own point of view.
Then if you think that they have wrong point of view because of wrong information. Then try to explain right information to them. We can’t impose anything on them. Make it simple and easy. I m sure they will understand.
Secondly being right doesn’t mean you can be always right. You are a human being, maybe sometime you can be also wrong ,maybe that time you don’t realise that because sometimes you also don’t know what is right and what is wrong for you. In that case we need to listen other’s point of view too.
Relationships are strengthened by understanding each other’s points of view. Being kind is more important than being right. Sometime being understanding is more important than being right…
sometime we don’t need words for arguments for being right but a kind, peaceful, loving heart that listens carefully. Sometime we don’t need keen eyes that always see wrong in others but open arms that accept as they are.
“Alwayschoose being kind over being right, and you will be rightevery time.”