Can you control everything? Now you will tell me………this is not a correct question. What is new in this. Everyone knows that ………..we can’t control everything. …..Exactly, that is what I’m trying to say. We can’t control everything, as we know already then what is the point of taking stress for every little things which we can’t able to control.
In our life, we know everything such as what is right ,what is wrong , how to live ,how to behave, what is important, what is not ,what should be do ,what shouldn’t etc.
We understand that most of us, want to control everything in our life and put a lot of thought and energy in doing so. It’s our habit that we want to control everything. We want everything to work as we want it to be. We put all our energy into trying to take control over everything , Because of this we get frustrated when this doesn’t happen. We lose a lot of energy on things that we cannot control.
The best way to protect yourself from frustration and stress, is acceptance. Let’s face it, most of the things in Our life are uncertain. Accept that You Cannot Control Everything. Once you accept, you will realise that life is much more fun to live and you will have much more time to have fun. Instead of worrying about what you cannot control, shift your energy to what you can create, try to engage yourself into something creative. Explore new things, new ideas, generate new hobbies.
We only live once and also have very limited period of time to live. If we know all of this then why not use our own creativeness, talent and energy to make something which gives us a lot of happiness and others as well. Yes there are many aspects of our and other people’s lives that we can’t control , But what we can control is our happiness and creativity. We have the power to control our choices.
When we can’t control what’s happening, challenges ourself to control the way you respond to what’s happening. That’s where our power is. When we can’t control what’s happening, we just need to relax and have faith that things will work out. Let go a little and just let life happen. Just breath, let go and live in the moment.
We can’t control everything that happens to us, But we can control how we respond to things, we can’t control. Only do our best, then adopt A “whatever happens, happens ”mindset. Don’t try to force things. Just let go and allow the right blessings to flow. Don’t stress over what we can’t control.