FORGIVE OTHERS Vs FORGIVE YOURSELF

Forgive others is as important as forgive yourself. Why is this so important ? Why can not be just let it go ? So many questions like this comes up in our mind.

We think that why forgive someone is so hard. Because that time our heart says…….forgive him/her but our mind says……No stop it, you can’t do it. For one second we prepare to forgive but very next moment, we postpone our plan till the never ending time.

It’s all depend on us , either we decide to forgive or not. It’s our decision. Our mind swing like pendulum. We want to stop it but we can’t. ………….Actually most of us think that when we forgive, we forgive someone but it’s not true ,in deep down at that time we forgive ourself .

we try to protect ourselves from pain, hurt, and lot of never ending hurtful thoughts which comes whenever we think about that moment.

Forgiveness can be challenging. But for a second just Try to see the situation from the other person’s point of view. Ask yourself, why they had behaved in such a way. May be we would have reacted similarly if we faced the same situation.

Try to remember those time, when we’ve hurt others and they have forgiven us . By embracing forgiveness, we can also embrace gratitude ,peace and joy.

Forgiveness is our strength, If we forgive easily, it means we are a strong person because very few people can able to do this. Some people are naturally more forgiving than others.

Forgiveness is always beneficial for you. Forgiveness can improve your health , it can give you peace of mind. It reduce your anxiety, unnecessary stress, depression. It improve your self-esteem, your relationships.

Let’s suppose we refuse to forgive then what will happen? You might Bring anger and bitterness into every relationship. Your behaviour and your attitude might change. You might always live in the past. Because of all this you’ll never be able to enjoy the present moment.

Forgiveness is like a favour for others as well as for ourself . Forgiveness give us strength to move on in our life. Lack of forgiveness can be self destructive. Forgiveness has the potential to change lives of people’s who are involved in this.

When someone tell us something that hurt us deeply. They left never healing type of wound for us. These wounds can leave us with lasting feelings of anger and bitterness . Forgiveness can heal the wound given by someone. The feeling of hurt might always be with us but Forgiveness can free us from cage of hurt, pain, bitterness.

“Forgive others, not because they deserve forgiveness but, because we deserve peace.”😊

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