If you wait until you are ready, you will be waiting for the rest of your life. Stop waiting and start today. What Do you think, doing things alone is boring and bad because you think that you can’t do it alone.
Have you ever had the situation when you won the free ticket for movie or free coupons for lunch or dinner at some fancy restaurant and you have the opportunity to attend but you had missed it because you didn’t find someone to go with you And have you ever wish that there was someone coming with you because You feel really bad and also feel fear.
This is the feeling which you feel only first time when you go out. I m damn sure once you come out From your comfort zone that feeling will end That confusing situation. This will also change your mindset about going alone. You will feel like going alone is not so boring and terrible thing. This is a gift of an amazing opportunity to make you more stronger and confident person.
It didn’t matter that You was going alone. You will realize that it is not that horrible that you thought in the past .You will realize that going alone is an opportunity to stretch yourself out of your comfort zone, that’s why Learn to walk alone, It will make you stronger.
Once You embraced that going alone was not terrible or scary then You will be capable of doing things along frequently. Doing things by yourself is an art . If you want to learn this art, first…… you have to change your mindset…..how you feel or think about the situation, Instead of thinking oh my god it’s only me , even though we are social human being, we don’t have to do everything with people we know.
Spend time with yourself doing things you love does not require another person. Yes of course some experiences are more fun when you are sharing the moment with someone you enjoy being around, but many things are as memorable when you are alone.
It’s my experience, Next time you have to go alone and be confident. Don’t decide not to go because there is no one going with you. Don’t focus on negative thoughts,take the chance to experience something by yourself for a change and personal growth.
Life is too short to wait for someone to go with your life journey , you must enjoy the life journey whether you are with someone or being alone. Learn to be alone and to like it.there is nothing more freeing and empowering than learning to like your own company .
“Some steps need to be taken alone. It’s the only way to really figure out where you need to go and who you need to be.If you make friends with yourself, you will never be alone “