Silence is good if it can calm your mind or take you to the level of peace. Silence is healthy for relationships in certain limit but if it goes beyond limit, it can destroy our relationships. We think that silence is better than unnecessary conversation, I also agree with that in certain limit. But we should know that When we repeatedly choose to be silent, it becomes our habit. This habit of being silent can be dangerous because it can never be able to give you same peace or calmness , Instead of peace this type of silence can give you a lot of loud noises ,overwhelming thoughts.

If we look around us, We often see lot of people and couples. They seems happily married couples from outside but when we enter in their little world, everything seems fake and superficial. They look happy because they never disagree with each other, they never argue with each other, they never fight with each other, but in this scenario one person is always dominating and other only obeying. If you never be able to disagree with your partner, or even you canāt put your Own point of view in-front of your partnerā¦..ā¦perhaps you are not being honest with your partner or in your relationship. Most of them donāt even realise, what are they doing with own relationship.

Silence is a slow toxin for us and for our relationship. Actually we think that we are trying to save our relationship by doing this. But this will not gonna happen because silence is slow killer, whenever it will cross own limit. Silence can slowly take us to the door of isolation, Maybe we feel alone and isolated. On the same time, unintentionally we can affect everyone around us . It can destroy everything.
Silence can never save our relationships because deep down⦠you know the truth very wellā¦deep down you are the one who suffering from pain ,you are the one who carry the lot of burden of being silent , and you know the truth very well, this silence only for superficial which only can see by peoples around you but you know that …..deep down in your mind, In your heart you keep listening lot of noises which can never stop even in your sleep. This is the truth which you know very well then why are you trying to put fake mask on your face of being happy.

You are the only one who know the whole truth thatās why you should take the first stepā¦ā¦unfortunately no one can help you if you donāt take first step. I know itās hard but everything is possible if you take first step. Talk to someone that……what you feel and explaining why you do. Not suppress your feeling because over time they will affect you physically and emotionally both. If you want to avoid this situation, you have to start express your feelingsā¦.with someone who can you trust like your husband, father ,mother, friends……….A single phrase āyou are not aloneā is means a lot especially when you are in darkness.

I m sure you donāt want to ruin your whole lifeā¦ā¦.so just start talking. You can analyse the situation when or why you stop taking? why did this happen? If you know that your relationship was good and happier before then I m sure you have the chance to improve yourself and your relationships.
Distance doesnāt separate people, silence does.
Thanks for sharing. Very interesting!
Speech is part of our daily life, but we do not need to talk all the time. In fact, the Bible says that there is āa time to be silent.ā Ecclesiastes 3:7
Maintaining silence when others are speaking can be a mark of respect. Controlling our tongue to keep quiet about a confidential matter gives evidence of discretion and discernment.
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Thank you so much for appreciation and encouragement Missyš
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‘Silence is a slow killer’. That is very accurate I believe. It is also a painful one. I try to express my emotions irl and I also found that blogging does help to get out of my head, out of the constant thinking. Thank you for writing about this. Have a nice day.
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Iām glad you find it worth the read. Thanks a bunch.š
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Very right, silence in any relationship is disastrous, silence should be reserved for anonymous negative energy
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Thank you š
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Very well said. I look at E-Motions as being Energy in Motion. When we move it, doors to profound realized growth open, and the soul finds new ways to heal as we begin to manifest our true calling. Thank you for this great reminder.
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Thanks a lot for reading and sharing your thought. Iām glad you find it worth the read.š
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Anuneel you are my first inspiration in the world of blogging so i re-nominate you for the Liebster award #1.
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Thank you for thinking of me……your kind and lovely words warmed my heartššššš
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Well descriptive thought. “Totally agreed that if silence goes beyond limit, it can destroy our relationships” ठति ą¤øą¤°ą„ą¤µą¤¤ą„र ą¤µą¤°ą„ą¤ą¤Æą„ą¤¤ą„ meaning Excess of anything is bad.
To avoid something, Silence is not only the option.There must be a honest conversation and fruitful environment to share anything & everything.
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Iām glad you find it worth the read.š thanks for sharing your thoughts. It means a lot. Thanks again….have a nice day šš
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Totally agree with this. If we talk about it without being too silent, if we ask it in a way that the other person can express themselves, we can solve a lot of problems. How we choose to bring a question into a convocation literally have the power to decide how the whole conversation would flow. Helpful article š
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Thanks a lot for reading and sharing your thought. Iām glad you find it worth the read.š
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Hi Anuneel, I have nominated you for The Liebster Award
Hereās the link
https://believestrong.wordpress.com/2019/08/31/the-liebster-award-3/
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Hi Manoj, thank you again for nominating me š
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Yeah balance is needed but I still choose to be silent.
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Thanks a lot for reading and leaving a comment. š
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Profound. There is a need for balance.
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Thanks a lot for reading and sharing your thought.
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