Learn to ignore some things if you truly want happiness in your life. Never allow anyone to steal your joy from you. What people say behind your back is none of your business as long as you are true to yourself. Never worry yourself about that. You can never stop people from talking about you, what you can do is to stop giving them so much attention. There is a time limit for every rumour in life.
Do what makes you happy. Anyone who cannot feel your pain, has no right to judge you. 99% of those who talk bad about you behind your back, wish to be like you. People talk behind your back When they can’t reach your level, When they don’t have what you have, When they try to copy you, but can’t.
When people can’t be like you they try to bring you down and talk bad about you. Never allow anyone to put you in a position of depression and self pity in life. Those whose life has no joy will always find every means to remove happiness from other people’s life. Never see yourself through the eyes of those who don’t value you. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You just need to accept yourself.
Negative minds will never give you a positive life. Most people spend half of their entire life analysing the faults in other people’s life, when their own lives need urgent repairs. Some will hate you and some will love you.
Loving you or hating you are both in your favour. When people love you, you live peacefully and happily in their hearts, and when people hate you, you become the landlord in their head living painfully in their brain everyday and giving them sleepless nights. A true friend will tell you the truth to your face not behind your back.
Remember, if people talk about you behind your back, it only means you are two steps ahead of them.