Have you ever notice your thinking pattern. Perhaps Most of us have same thinking pattern. We carry beliefs about what is right and what is wrong and we keep holding these beliefs for years.
These beliefs are deeply rooted in ourself. No one can easily change them. That’s why when someone would disagree with our believes suddenly we start fighting or arguing until they’ll agree with us.
In that case peoples starts avoiding us. Because no one want to be wrong. After that only conflict and confrontation will begin because the need to be right always makes someone else wrong. Being right implies that someone else must be wrong.
Are you happy with this? I’m sure you are not because you know the importance of your relationships and also know the importance of other’s happiness and yourself happiness too.
So we are gonna find another way so that we can maintain our relationships.
First of all we need to understand that everyone has there own point of view and we need to respect them as we respect our own point of view.
Then if you think that they have wrong point of view because of wrong information. Then try to explain right information to them. We can’t impose anything on them. Make it simple and easy. I m sure they will understand.
Secondly being right doesn’t mean you can be always right. You are a human being, maybe sometime you can be also wrong ,maybe that time you don’t realise that because sometimes you also don’t know what is right and what is wrong for you. In that case we need to listen other’s point of view too.
The colours and shades of kindness are not painted onto someone, they’re worn in.
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True….! thanks for visiting Happiship 😊
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Some good points and be kind and happy…Thank you for the follow 🙂
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You are welcome,Thanks for visiting Happiship 😊
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Right! Often, we have a habit of negative thought patterns either consciously or unconsciously. We should set about to adjust these patterns in an effort to achieve a better quality of life.
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Totally agreed…we should find and adjust such pattern. Thank you so much for sharing your view.
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How interesting that we both posted on the same general premise that thinking we are the only ones who are right gets us no where! Well done!
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Thanks for appreciation and visiting Happiship. Yeah, I read your poem “The world in black or white”. My post and your poem both give almost same message.
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Perhaps there is something to be learned here!
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Nuce post. Sometimes it’s a hard pill to swallow.
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Absolutely wonderful article! Thank you for sharing this wonderful info with us! 🙂
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Thank you savvy 😊
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Thank you, Anuneel ✨
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Nice to meet you! You’re right, sometimes I forget to prioritize kindness. So much wisdom from a humble little blog like yours. 🙂 I hope you grow one day. And thank you for liking my poem.
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Nice to meet you too Tiffany. Thanks for visiting Happiship.
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Good stuff!
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Thank you 😊
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Wow… Superb… Very nicely and very simply you have explained it…👌👌
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Thank you so much Manish😊
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Your welcome🤗🤗
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Nice to see your another post and I totally agree on the fact that “WHEN SOMEONE WOULD DISAGREE WITH OUR BELIEVES SUDDENLY WE START FIGHTING OR ARGUING UNTIL THEY’LL AGREE WITH US”
Waiting for more thoughts of yours..
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Thanks a lot Neelesh for your appreciation😊
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So trueeeee !
We need to accept the fact that we can be wrong too😊
Guess what? I’m going post an article somewhat around this topic only. 😁😉
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Thanks for your input on this matter. I would appreciate and can’t wait for your article on this as well.
Happy blogging 😊
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It’s my pleasure 😊
It will be up on blog tomorrow morning 😁😉
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